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Note from Dawn
Wow, can you believe summer is here?
My boyfriend is flying me down to Newport Beach this weekend, so we can spend some romantic time at the beach together. I can't wait.
Last week my daughter had her 8th grade 'Moving Up' ceremony from school. She was so happy my ex-husband came to the ceremony to see her. I was happy my ex-husband and I still love and care about each other enough that we could sit side-by-side and enjoy the ceremony together.
The road to get to this point in our relationship has not always been easy. But I'm happy that we've succeeded in creating a peaceful, harmonious, loving relationship, especially for the sake of my daughter.
In this week's article, I give you some of the most important tips I've learned in getting ready for new love. Summer is a grand time for love... and you can start by giving it to yourself.
Until next time,
With love, light and blessings,
P.S. A great big 'Welcome' to all the new readers who joined our Inspired Heart Community since last week. I hope through my coaching and newsletter you feel like you are stepping into a "Sanctuary for your Heart and Spirit."
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"3 Ways to Get Ready for Summer Love"
Summertime caresses us with long, warm days… sizzling summer evenings … and vacations to sunny places. It evokes feelings of playfulness and romance. But if you’re love life isn’t where you’d like it to be, it can feel like everyone else is out having fun, while you’re still stuck at home waiting for someone special.
If you’re ready to start attracting love this summer, then follow these three tips and before you know it, you’ll have that special someone by your side watching a sunset on a romantic summer night.
1. Give yourself the love you desire.
If we don’t love ourselves, it’s impossible for anyone else to love us. It’s as simple as that.
Years ago, when I was feeling lonely and alone, I desperately wanted to find a partner, someone to fill the void in my life I seemed unable to fill myself. But, any relationship I found never lasted long. Either my neediness pushed him away, or I attracted someone who was as judgmental and critical of me, as I was of myself.
Everything in our life is a mirror for what’s going on inside us, including the people and relationships we attract.
Once I was able to love, accept and appreciate myself, the people I attracted changed too. As I learned to treat myself with respect, I found people respected me. As I learned to enjoy spending time with myself and doing things I loved even without a partner, I attracted men who enjoyed spending time with me.
Before I could believe I was worthy of love from someone else, I had to believe I deserved my own love. Give yourself the love you so richly deserve.
2. Know who you are and what you really want in a partner.
When I was desperate and looking for love, I felt very insecure. I was constantly redefining who I was and what I wanted in a partner, based on the person I was with at the time. Those relationships were never very successful. I never felt like I could really be myself. I kept trying to morph myself into what I thought the other person wanted. I was afraid to be who I was, because I might be rejected. I was even more afraid to ask for what I wanted, because I was afraid I didn’t deserve it and would be disappointed.
When I was finally able to embrace who I was, I started to believe I deserved to have a partner who loved and appreciated me. I stopped trying to change myself every time someone new entered my life. I stopped pursuing relationships that weren’t what I wanted in the long term. I learned to honor who I was, and what I wanted in a man. Once I got very clear about my desires, and knew I deserved them, I attracted what I wanted in a man.
Treasure who you are. Honor your desires. Love, accept and appreciate all parts of yourself, so your partner will do the same.
3. Get free of the past.
I learned to love myself, and got clarity about what I wanted in a partner, but one thing still kept me from finding the love I desired. I hadn’t fully let go of the past, even though I thought I had.
Months after my divorce, every time my ex-husband called and mentioned his new girlfriend, I wanted to throw something out the window… mostly him. My feelings of anger and resentment were keeping me stuck and preventing me from moving on.
There’s a Toltec tradition that says we surrender a portion of ourselves when we continue to dwell on any unhealed experience from the past. Until we completely forgive, and let go of any anger and resentment, we keep ourselves locked in past hurt.
The last thing I wanted to do was keep myself tied to the past. When I realized what I was doing, I did the work I needed to heal and forgive both my ex-husband and myself, so I could finally move on.
Get free of the past. Reclaim all parts of your heart, so you can embrace new love. You deserve to have the greatest love and relationship you desire. And it can start this summer.
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